Cerebral palsy does not prevent someone from having friendships, romantic relationships, sex, marriage or a family.
As with anybody else, relationships are built around communication, trust, attraction, respect and shared experiences.
Dating with Cerebral Palsy
Dating can involve additional practical considerations around accessibility, transport or communication.
It can also involve dealing with other people's misconceptions about disability.
You decide when and how much you want to explain about cerebral palsy.
Communication
Good communication matters in every relationship.
Talk openly about practical support, boundaries and what each person wants from the relationship.
A partner should not automatically be expected to become a carer, nor should needing assistance prevent someone from being an equal partner.
Intimacy
People with cerebral palsy have the same range of sexual feelings and relationship preferences as anyone else.
Physical positioning, muscle stiffness, pain or fatigue can sometimes require adaptation.
Healthcare professionals can provide advice where a physical or medical issue affects sexual wellbeing.
Starting a Family
Some adults with cerebral palsy become parents.
Anyone considering pregnancy who has questions about medication, mobility or their health should seek individual advice from appropriate healthcare professionals.
Healthy Relationships
Disability does not change the basic standards of a healthy relationship.
Everyone deserves respect, consent, privacy and the ability to make their own decisions.
Cerebral palsy is part of someone's life, but it does not define their capacity to love, be loved or build meaningful relationships.
Sources and further information
Useful websites
- NHS: Cerebral palsy
Overview of cerebral palsy, symptoms, causes, treatment and support.